on one recent RARE occassion this male. we'll call him Blucralpha stepped to me. He had it goin on,intelligent, great dresser,taller than me, kinda chubby, great job in an office building near mines, nice car, went to church sorta often and loved him some Hani. he couldn't make me cum by fucking, but his head was something like oscarworthy dramatic and he spoke the entire time. HEY THERE NOW! tell her how good it is…meeemories…ANYwho. our freakometers were eerily in tune! in the bathroom at the taste with the frozen chocolate bananas? ok i have on a sundress and thigh-highs. its NOTHING! i'll have Rob buzz you up for the apetizer….moving along, Blucralpha and I dated for a hot minute. Never did I know of the tomfuggery that would beseech my sweet soul…BLAM! his babymama leaps out the Pjs like a rat round ol' jewtown.Did Blublu reallyhave a 10month old son by a hoodrat that decided to stalk me? nah. this will all go away after i finish this bottle of Soracco[fellas cop that wine] so I meet the trollop on the wesside, on my turf in case i gotta phone the goons to get her right. [Don't get it twisted, i've been known to beat the breaks off hoes while donning brooks brothers and prada. ASK about the kid....side bar ,the CPD should utilize babymama's supersleuthin skills and find Alexi's ass cuz blublu's trollp shole NUFF found me! i STAY lowkey wtfugg? AAAANYwho] after speaking with her and being urged to just stay away from her babydaddy, I was left dumbfounded and completely confused. I cried for days. Not because I thought Blucralpha was my futurebabydaddy, but more for the sorry state we're in as young blacks trying to love/date. How did he find her block to hump her? Judging by her appearance she definitely was a potential slamonella or hiv carrier, so why would he go raw?he went in it for some quick easy lowkey no work booty and is now saddled down with a40-life sentence. [when u have a kid ur attached to that person for ur entire life span. i figure u live to about 80 so u and the trollop gone have ta at least be social for 40 or so years past the humpin pt] Have we lost out minds?!!? ARG!?! needless to say, I never spoke to him again and to this day he shoots me the side eye or tries to randomly call. I love me so damn much I'm not interested in any explanation. thas why i'm unhappily single i guess. i don't do conflict well at all. i'm evil and cut people off quicka thanna skrippa lose clothes… i hope you went to blogxilla's site. he has some REALLY dope posts on there. REALLY! everything i'm reading is making me rethink my whole situation…mmhmm! sho nuff!

i, and many like melooking for what u mentioned above but he is settling for whoever sparkles the most or is easy. i know 3 brothas right now, probably paying for everything their chick wants only to not get a thank u/be fighting tonite. all this because she's light/gotta phatass. mmm? yes! my guy told me “my girl nuttier thant sherise[this crazy chick from hf] but i mean i like when niggas look at me like i gotta bad one. its not that u like ain worf dating,u ain ugly and u cool as hell, but a nigga see you and think that's somebody's mama material, and u prolly gotta man.i wanted to snap my phone in half but i totally got what he was sayin. it was real. i have a huge heart and am more maternal and love to look out for those i love, so that makes me undatable to black men in chicago? wowzers! it irks me to my core how men have soooo many options and i'm stuck internet dating and or dealing with somebody's husband. i'm worth more than that. and have more respect for somebody else's union than that. i mean a brotha can have the white freak,the asian assistant to do the work, the indian to run the money, the latina for hot sex,all while bn married to a sista. FUCK THAT!

anywho my adventure with Blucalpha the babydaddy broke my heart. not because i loved him but because i felt so damn powerless. i've even been trapped by a guy in the[the damn STEELerho wasn't even working with a sphaghettithumb. at 320lbs i shouldn't need my contract readers on to see it] and i will openly admit i headed str8 to the chop shot to handle my bi. bc failed me….i REFUSE to have a baby by someone i don't care for! and i would have been set for life! mmmm these haffas and trollops out here popping babies out like the rats they are and struggling and fuckin for free. i don't understand it. i'm gonna keep my tight p-u nice and spawn free. even if i do have a baby i'm getting a c-sections and tummytuck cuz my goodies need to stay right! yaDIIIIIIG!? its time for this bs to END! NOW! i ain' playin! i swear i'm not! while these losers are humping the bowl movements l mean baby mamas[i got confused] they are passing up winners like myself! WEAR A DAMN CONDOM or pull out! seriously!

what you need to do is grow up and try to be a role model for your son! cause you think you doing somthing by as you call it ” beatin dat Azz up” Well let me put you up on somthing cuzzo,! it's another man out here that will respect her and treat her like the lady she is and take care of your son and beat it up like you could only imagine…lol and you would not have a chance in he!! believe that…!!!!

And this is coming from someone who is not a baby mama. I pray that you get some common sense and a sense of respect. I hope you get some training and I hope that you show yourself to be a better man than your post conveys.

Depending on the lengh of the relationship, history will often times make that accomadation possible for replay sex especially if it was good. In my case this dude did me toooooooooooooooo durty to eva neva give his bitch ass some cooch. I dont care how good it was and it was one of the best but the person attached to the dick wasnt worth it.

The ego in general belonging to either parent at times can be so out of touch with reality that the priority (the kid) is just used as a tool of attack for the other parent when you dont play by the other's rules. That's why I'm glad i stuck to my guns, fuck it i'm still gonna be a bitch right? Only I'll be that bitch you REALLY wanna fuck and cant. I like that much better:)