Cheat On You

“The things you do, make me want to cheat on you. All I go through make me want to cheat on you.” Lyrics from Trey Songz. I heard his song, “Cheat On You” and it became the final nail in the coffin for my relationship. I didn’t cheat on her, instead I weighed my options and ended the relationship before I cheating w/ this fly dime from around the way. Now although nothing in this world is concrete except the sidewalks in the city. I would like to explore the why men cheat.

I tell ladies all the time that all men cheat for a reason. Likely a bad reason, but a reason nonetheless. Now, when I say this females never seem to understand my logic behind this theory, which is probably why some of them get cheated on. If someone is going to offer you 5,000 bucks are you going to take it, or say no? You see, men look at sex like money, and I know most people won’t turn down free money and it’s the same thing with p*ssy. Newsflash there are a gang load of sexually promiscuous females out there that don’t care that you are the new Donna Reed, Michelle Obama or Claire Huxtable of your household, they are hell bent on being the Unis Chantilly to your perfect relationship.

Another woman is probably the most common reason why men cheat, she pushed up, or he pushed up and she was willing to give it up, and there is no pussy like new pussy. I believe the key to solving this matter is communication.

Another reason men cheat is well… You. Ask yourself what are you bringing to the table other than pussy, another plate he has to pay for at Red Lobster, and extra therms on the gas bill? Now if you thought this question out and your bringing more to the table then just dead weight then it’s not you it’s him. He’s a dog and not worthy of experiencing the shimmering sparkle of your diamond’s beauty. Also ask yourself what do you have to do to satisfy your man’s hungry. It is a natural fact that the human race is infected w/ a disease call gluttony, a never ending hunger for more. Hell it’s probably why you fell in love w/ the dude to begin with b/c he never quits, yearns for the finer things in life, and strives to impress.

I wish I could write more but my time does not allow me to go on any further. All I’m saying is evaluate your relationship, you’re a smart person, ask yourself the proper questions if something doesn’t feel right. Walk a fine line b/c nagging itself is a valid reason to a man which will cause him to cheat. Well shit, to a man… or I should say most men, anything is a good reason to cheat… from waking up to sneezing. Tasha sneezes better so I’m going to holla at her… you heard the way she sneezes…. lol But be careful, Love is a wonderful thing and all too often it gets tainted w/ Hip Hop & R&B songs. Numerous Women are being denied relationships b/c he only wants a shawty, and numerous males are being pushed to the left to the left, b/c she feels like she’s irreplaceable. Listen to your heart not the music.