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I have 2 questions for you xilla
1) Have you ever been in love??
2) Since you are so sexual what if the person you decide to spend the rest of you life with(marriage or long term girlfriend) became ill and could not have sex for an a long time and you were extremely in need would you cheat on them if they would never find out.. there was no way that she would know what so ever would you cheat???

1) Yes I've been in love a few times.
2)Damn, that's a hard question. While I'm not in the heat of the moment I would have to say no, but real talk in the heat of the moment I'm not sure mainly because what is done in the dark seems to always come to light.

Damn Xilla, why doesn't anyone ask you any questions---they have the perfect opportunity. Anywho, 1) How old are your kids; 2) Did you always know that you wanted your blog to be sexually oriented, or did it just evolve into "Sexual Intellects"?; 3) Do you desire to be married one day? (As Chris Rock says, every man MUST get married because you don't want to be the old man in the club!)

1) my kids are 6 years old... long story. I may blog it one day but it's a really hard situation, emotionally for me to come to grips with, a lot of other peoples feelings involved so I'm not sure if it's time to open up those wounds but I have an amazing story.

2) Actually my blog has went through several stages, at first it was just a regular personal blog when I first started I was once the most popular black blogger on myspace and then i decided to move to my own site to make some money off of my website and then I switched it up to Urban Life Daily and became more focused it was going good because I would still pretty much write what was on my mind and then I got locked up... and my girlfriend at the time would tell me all the time you have a gossip blog... So I just switched it up to a sexual based blog and I'm doing amazing numbers now.

3) I do want to be married but I have to find the perfect woman for me.... I don't want to give up my blog so she has to be open minded about that and not think that o0o0o this blog is about me because I have never wrote a blog about anyone or posted a blog about anyone persay except the cindy stories but those are mostly all old.

Have any tips for us upcoming bloggers?

Yes, Write Good Shit!! That is the best piece of Advice I ever got... Other than that if you were more specific i can address it more. You have my email address hit me up and we'll talk I also offer blog consulting for a small donation. But you're my people. holla on the backside.

This what I have been waiting for, but I won't go overboard.
1) Since your the sexual intellectual, have you ever been approached by any of your daily readers to find out if you live up to your name?
2) How many licks does it take to get in the tootsie roll center of a tootsie pop?

lol@#2

Yes I actually have, one of my readers sent me naked picture of her fingering herself in front of her computer reading one of my Cinderella stories... I haven't got any pussy pictures Lately though But I do love pictures. Funny thing is although Atlanta is my biggest market I'm not sure who is from here and who is not from here and I'm not flying out to see anybody so0o0o

2. The OWL said 3 so that's my story an I'm sticking to it

Have you ever made a porno?
Would you ever make a porno?
Have you ever had a threesome?
mfm or fmf?

1) A porno - no, A Sex Tape yes!! I made 2 sex tapes back in the day before the internet was really popping like that before blogs and when the only thing hot online was a blackplanet or black voices page. Funny thing is I lost it. Now An Ex has pictures of her giving me head which are so funny because her eyes are rolling in the back of her head and she looks possessed lol but There is a rumor that there is a sex tape of me and one of my Cinderella's floating around online. eh who knows

2) An actually porno- sure why not I think i can put it down. I couldn't be president though so that would suck. I would love to do one with Roxy Reynolds or Jazmine Cashere or Kapri Styles those 3 get all my liquid babies when I watch porn and jada fire too.

3) Threesome - Once for real and Once sort of... FMF

Have you always been the sexual being you portray in your posts?
What do you think drives your sexual motivation?
Random, why did you leave up top for the South?

1) Well umm I'm not sure I try not to judge people unless its for a purpose IE a blog or to draw a reaction. I mean I've always got girls though... Well Since 11th grade. That's when I figured it out. And The later on in life I realized that girls like sex just as much as men and i could get some and after hurting a few women I've learned how to treat them like queens.

2) I don't know I just see something and I get motivated. Sex is everywhere.

3) My cousin asked me to move.... I know it's not a great story but that's pretty much it. Then he kicked me out for the 1st time like a month later go figure.

If you had a girlfriend when you got locked how come I didn't know that?
And how long was yall together?

I"m not sure why you didn't know that... I don't really really blog my personal life but if i was in jail for 45 day I think i had a girlfriend for 45 days...

Funny that u mentioned how you lost your sex tape. I wrote a post about that on my blog the other day....lol.

Xilla uhh why does my fuck budd have to keep stopping in the middle of our "smash session" to regain his composure? he keeps saying that he has to stop or else he'll come. Is my good good really that good-good? lol.

Well That's generally why someone would stop in the middle would be to keep from coming trust he's doing a favor because I might just let it go if I'm bout to come... I'll make it up to you next time. and if it's really that good. I wouldn't know I would have to test drive the car before i can tell you how good it rides.

Wow! Aren't you the brave one today. First, I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy your blog. You are my first and last stop of my "cyber"day. I'm too embarassed to admit how much checking back I do... everybody here kinda makes my day- boring life of mine :) Now....anything? Really? (1) Are you living "large" ? (cuz size does matter-most times) (2) What's the nastiest thing you've ever participated in inside of the bedroom?-I'm talking the 2 embarrassed to admit type stuff.

2) I'm not really embarassed of anything I've done really I mean I've done just about everything a man and a woman can do.... Just about everything. I'll do a blog about one of them is that cool?

1) Am I'm well endowed? Well I don't know I watch a lot of porn so I'm on par with the porn stars so0o0o if that answers your question. I've been told I'm big, too big, small, not that big and I've had the perfect sized ManXilla so0o0o go figure.

Firstly, your daughters are beautiful (and thanx for the add on myspace!)

1) Would you be comfortable with them reading your blog one day?
2) What would your definition of "the perfect woman" be for you?
3) Do you know if any of the Cindy featured ladies have ever read about themselves on here?

Oh and just fyi I'm from South Africa and yeah we got freaks down here to! (",)

1) Yes I plan on telling my kids everything I've done. I think the fact that I didn't know too much about my mom really had an effect on me. I mean momma is a big part of my life I just think she made some mistakes like not telling me BILLS were a trip!! lol but I feel like if i tell my girls what i've done and how I was they'd know how to handle relationships and emotions a little better the last thing I want is for my little girls to NOT know how to handle something.

2) I'm not sure a perfect woman exist... I'll know when I see her i guess I firmly believe that you have to accept someone for who they are. I know I can't really handle a girlfriend right now... I mean I want a girl friend but right now she would have to put up with a lot of crap just for dealing with me. I'm on a journey right now I'm in for the long haul not the short come so i'm taking a few shorts right now in order to be living large in the future.

3)Yea one of them left a comment on one of them lol it's cool I've had girls who actually asked me to be a cindy and write about them. The most flattering thing you can do in love is turn a girl into literature.

And a big shout out to South Africa!! Africans are beautiful I would love to go there I wouldn't be able to satisfy my sexual desires there though...

Why would'nt you be able to "satisfy your sexual desires" here?! Gotta hear this one! LOL!

Am I the only person who thinks lil waynes new piercing is a lil weird?

No I'm sure you're not the only one.

Just sending out cyber luv Xilla!! Love the site...i have nothing sexual to ask but for me the sexy thing about you is your honesty...a rare thing to find these days...keep doing your thang!!

Im an adult woman and I kno I cant f*ck ….laying on my back ill thrust around but when its up to me to get the job done, I don’t feel confident in what im doin. No guy has ever really showed, told or guided me on what to and what not to do. The one thing I KNOW im great at is HEAD! and that’s because I was guided on what to do and from there I mastered it on my own. I feel it’s the same with sex if no one ever tells you how would you know! From the time I started til now ive neva been taught (I blame the men I dealt with) and I neva really knew I wasnt doin somethin right til recent years but I neva cared to know bcause i wasnt F*cking on a consistant basis but now I NEED to know Im too grown not to!! So im askin you, what to do, how do I FUCK? ….I need to know everything from what to do layin on my back to getting it from the back and everything in between.

I got you.

So many questions where do I start! First, I want to say I LOVE your blog, its great to see/hear things from a male’s perspective. Ok so I’m seeing somebody now that I really like, everything is great…expect (UH HUH) sexually. I enjoy the actual act of it with him (you know the whole him being the one inside me part etc) but his motion in my ocean isn’t so satisfying AND if that wasn’t enough he cums entirely TOO quick. The first few times I thought maybe he’s nervous excited or something but the last time I wanted to explode and not in a good way. It’s only been a few wks so is it too early to mention something, should I give it another go or two and if not what could/should I possible say?

He should know!! Hell I know when I'm wack!! I had sex with and I came entirely too quick I apologized. I was like my bad I'll make it up to you real talk lol This ain't me... she believe me and We did it again I was rock hard and then nothing it went to a loose noodle I just laughed... she was frustrated and i was mad because i would have rather came quick then just went soft... I think it was because we moved rooms and I love my motivation and train of thought. I had to damn near beg to get another chance. I ended up calling up a few ladies to validate me and when I got another chance I PUT IT DOWN!! so talk to him, if he's not open enough to accept your view he's a bitch and you shouldn't be sleeping with him anyway.

IDK its been a handful of times and neva did I get an apology nor did it seem like he was embarrassed bout it. It might be a situation like homegirl where nobody has ever told him!! He doesnt even cum quick then get back up to go for another round or two...its bad, i dont look forward to it but its available dick and I do like him. we even had a "noodle" moment lol and i was so turned off that i let him get himself hard again cause I was that done!

ALSO IF YOU WANT TO ASK A QUESTION I'LL keep it OPEN FOR A LITTLE WHILE LONGER BUT IF YOU'RE ASKING FOR ADVICE EMAIL ME THE CONTACT INFO IS AT THE TOP OF THE PAGE.

Ahem.

Being the Virgo that I am, do you think that you are compatible with any zodiac sign? Me personally, I think Scorpios are freaky as hell.

Also, how would you feel if a woman asked another man to join you and her?

Hey Xilla,

I usually lurk but not comment. But since you said we could asked anythiing I figured hey y not.

Do you like role playing? I ask because I LOVE IT! It my fav next to giving head and anal, so I was wondering do you and other fellows you know like it as well. Let me know your thoughts.