Comments on: 13 Great Reasons To Avoid Dating Single Mothers http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:32:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: Kim http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13681 Kim Wed, 10 Sep 2008 04:18:19 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13681 Jittauni I totally agree.<br>And you wonder why is it that the black family structure is so fucked up today. If a woman tell a guy that she has kids, the man will react as if she has Ebola. Whats funny is that alot of single fathers will bust out with the baby pictures thinking thats supposed to score him some points with the ladies. Jittauni I totally agree.
And you wonder why is it that the black family structure is so fucked up today. If a woman tell a guy that she has kids, the man will react as if she has Ebola. Whats funny is that alot of single fathers will bust out with the baby pictures thinking thats supposed to score him some points with the ladies.

]]> By: Kim http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13682 Kim Wed, 10 Sep 2008 04:18:19 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13682 Jittauni I totally agree.<br>And you wonder why is it that the black family structure is so fucked up today. If a woman tell a guy that she has kids, the man will react as if she has Ebola. Whats funny is that alot of single fathers will bust out with the baby pictures thinking thats supposed to score him some points with the ladies. Jittauni I totally agree.
And you wonder why is it that the black family structure is so fucked up today. If a woman tell a guy that she has kids, the man will react as if she has Ebola. Whats funny is that alot of single fathers will bust out with the baby pictures thinking thats supposed to score him some points with the ladies.

]]> By: dub http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13680 dub Wed, 10 Sep 2008 02:49:43 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13680 Well #1 you can rule out because she already had the baby... so if u like what u see post delivery, chances are she's all good! Well #1 you can rule out because she already had the baby… so if u like what u see post delivery, chances are she's all good!

]]> By: Jittauni http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13679 Jittauni Wed, 10 Sep 2008 02:40:57 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13679 This is the most ignorant piece of sh*t I have ever read. I don't even have kids and I'm offended. I mean does the same go for single fathers? Do we look at them like their contaminated?! No, for the most part we applaud a man who takes care of his own seed but when a woman does it she's undateable. BS! This is the most ignorant piece of sh*t I have ever read. I don't even have kids and I'm offended. I mean does the same go for single fathers? Do we look at them like their contaminated?! No, for the most part we applaud a man who takes care of his own seed but when a woman does it she's undateable. BS!

]]> By: kyas_mami http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13659 kyas_mami Wed, 10 Sep 2008 00:00:33 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13659 PREACH!!!! PREACH!!!!

]]> By: ANuJS http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13678 ANuJS Tue, 09 Sep 2008 23:32:14 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13678 What about the men that have about 5 different baby mommas....where picking up the kids from their motherS house can take all damn day. What about the men that have about 5 different baby mommas….where picking up the kids from their motherS house can take all damn day.

]]> By: Sherine http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13677 Sherine Tue, 09 Sep 2008 22:44:24 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13677 As a female with no kids, I totally understand and I can respect it.<br>Ive tried dating men with kids.. and its interesting to say the least.<br><br>What I find HIGHLY entertaining...is MEN with kids..Who dont like dating WOMEN with kids...<br>Makes no sense to me. <br><br>Ive just found for me, its about having someone who can offer me exactly what I can offer them. After me, thats basically it, so If I meet a man and it gets serious.. He can be a priority in my world.. When dating my ex.. It was him, his son, ofcourse the baby mama..and then me.<br><br>I promised myself I would NEVER do that to myself again. I deserve more than that. Interesting blog indeed. As a female with no kids, I totally understand and I can respect it.
Ive tried dating men with kids.. and its interesting to say the least.

What I find HIGHLY entertaining…is MEN with kids..Who dont like dating WOMEN with kids…
Makes no sense to me.

Ive just found for me, its about having someone who can offer me exactly what I can offer them. After me, thats basically it, so If I meet a man and it gets serious.. He can be a priority in my world.. When dating my ex.. It was him, his son, ofcourse the baby mama..and then me.

I promised myself I would NEVER do that to myself again. I deserve more than that. Interesting blog indeed.

]]> By: Slim Goodie http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13673 Slim Goodie Tue, 09 Sep 2008 22:39:56 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13673 And my thing is that you are still attracted to her. (New Blog) Guys that love deadbeat women!<br>She doesn't work, she's preparing for school, (school started in August you know).<br>How will she support her kids while in school with no job? If she's on welfare that's fine and none of my business, but these women kill me with no job, kids, don't even WANT to do anything with themselves and guys are all over them. <br>Why do you like her, and it seems as if you are hurt that she puts you on the back burner. Please be honest, if your whipped then that's what it is. I'm just curious.... You seem pretty decent! And my thing is that you are still attracted to her. (New Blog) Guys that love deadbeat women!
She doesn't work, she's preparing for school, (school started in August you know).
How will she support her kids while in school with no job? If she's on welfare that's fine and none of my business, but these women kill me with no job, kids, don't even WANT to do anything with themselves and guys are all over them.
Why do you like her, and it seems as if you are hurt that she puts you on the back burner. Please be honest, if your whipped then that's what it is. I'm just curious…. You seem pretty decent!

]]> By: Slim Goodie http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13668 Slim Goodie Tue, 09 Sep 2008 22:29:57 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13668 LOL, Naija You are funny. That was good Tho.... LOL, Naija You are funny. That was good Tho….

]]> By: JMK http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-1/#comment-13672 JMK Tue, 09 Sep 2008 21:20:02 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/09/08/13-great-reasons-to-avoid-dating-single-mothers/#comment-13672 Well right now she has no job cause she is preparing for school. In all honesty I understand the priorities but the real problem is that she doesn't do much. And the babysitter thing is usually after she says she wants to hang out etc, then when the time comes she can't find a sitter. Thats why I say that. I can deal with not having all her free time etc, but its when you know she is hangin out with another dude over you when she has that free time ocassionally. I understand friends are friends, but when time is limited (and yes I work nights so she has the ability to hang out with friends when I am working), and she chooses not to hang out thats when I have the problem. Well right now she has no job cause she is preparing for school. In all honesty I understand the priorities but the real problem is that she doesn't do much. And the babysitter thing is usually after she says she wants to hang out etc, then when the time comes she can't find a sitter. Thats why I say that. I can deal with not having all her free time etc, but its when you know she is hangin out with another dude over you when she has that free time ocassionally. I understand friends are friends, but when time is limited (and yes I work nights so she has the ability to hang out with friends when I am working), and she chooses not to hang out thats when I have the problem.

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