Get Yours – The Black Woman’s Guide To Eruption

I bent her over the kitchen counter…she came so hard that she slide to the floor in exhaustion, panties pushed to the side and missing one shoe. Not that she care… she had came.

Do you want to have an orgasm this weekend? Most times at the end of sex the female is left “near the mountain top” while the man is in dreamland… snoring. Not to worry ladies I’ve spoke with a few of my female friends and came up with a woman’s guide to achieving an orgasm.

High Expectations – As cliché as this may sound “you have to believe.” My ex Dee used to tell me that she knows she’s going to cum and it’s not a matter of when, but how. A lot of women just sit back and wait on the man to make her cum, even though there is nothing wrong with her taking charge of her own sexual eruption. Would you go into a restaurant and let the waiter pick what you’ll eat for dinner? So why leave your orgasm in his hands?

En Vogue – Some of you may remember their song “Free your mind and the rest will follow.” It’s the same way with sex. Women are genetically different than men so small things like a sink full of dirty dishes, or does he notice the stretch marks on her butt could hinder her ability to reach climax. So doing things like making sure you won’t get pregnant or cleaning the kitchen before sex could help boost her chance at achieving orgasm.

Get Dirty – Get rid of all you fears when it comes to sex, don’t worry about what a man thinks, or how you’ll look bent over with your as$ in the air. We don’t care anyway! The only thing we as men are worried about is getting our nut and feeling the wonderfulness that is having sex. Swallowing doesn’t make you a slut, demanding to be done a certain way doesn’t make you dirty. All that matter is if it will help you cum.

Stick To The Script – I was once with this girl who came every time we had sex, but it wasn’t anything I did, it was simply that she knew what she liked. During sex, whether hitting it from the back, putting her legs on her neck or other things that I do that turn me on, when she was ready to cum she cums. She would demand I get on my back and ride me until she came. She knew that a sure fire way for her to nut was to get on top and ride away. So she came and told me to hurry up! Hey it worked, so find what you like and do it until you get “there.”

A Nut is a Nut – Most of the time your man won’t be able to make you cum from sex, but does that mean you don’t have to cum? No it doesn’t it might just mean you’ll need to make yourself cum. Things happen and one night while with the same girl from above, I came too quick for her liking. She didn’t get mad, she simple pulled out her toy and brought herself to the promise land. I didn’t get mad I just enjoyed the show and actually got back up for round 2 while she was doing it… One thing she didn’t do was me in round 2. She said I was stingy.