Comments on: Arguing Out Loud http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:32:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: Miss_P http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14618 Miss_P Wed, 27 Aug 2008 21:11:20 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14618 i don't know. sometimes hanging up on a person is neccessary. if you call me at work and start some craziness, and i repeatedly say let's do this another time, and you just keep pushing my buttons and i raise my voice and now my entire office is in my business, i am hanging up on you. i cant stand it when people do it to me, but if i've told you i'm not going to argue with you over my office phone, that's what the hell i mean i don't know. sometimes hanging up on a person is neccessary. if you call me at work and start some craziness, and i repeatedly say let's do this another time, and you just keep pushing my buttons and i raise my voice and now my entire office is in my business, i am hanging up on you. i cant stand it when people do it to me, but if i've told you i'm not going to argue with you over my office phone, that's what the hell i mean

]]> By: Em http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14235 Em Wed, 27 Aug 2008 19:57:57 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14235 LMAO . well like a wise man once said " you can pay for school but you can't buy CLASS". i think she misinterpreted that definition. LMAO . well like a wise man once said ” you can pay for school but you can't buy CLASS”. i think she misinterpreted that definition.

]]> By: Em http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14237 Em Wed, 27 Aug 2008 19:55:07 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14237 by any means necessary, avoid hanging up. everything else, perfectly fine. :)<br>but hanging up [to me] is so disrespectful. If someone is blanking, i just put the fone down bc you're not about to use that as fuel in the argument towards me. "wtf? did you really just hang up on me? fucc you." ... happens. lol That leaves a nice comfy spacious couch for animosity to sit its big flabby cellulite on and there were enough times when that nicca was in my house so i don't want em'.<br>The person will ultimately feel slighted by it and that will never be forgotten. eveeerr. by any means necessary, avoid hanging up. everything else, perfectly fine. :)
but hanging up [to me] is so disrespectful. If someone is blanking, i just put the fone down bc you're not about to use that as fuel in the argument towards me. “wtf? did you really just hang up on me? fucc you.” … happens. lol That leaves a nice comfy spacious couch for animosity to sit its big flabby cellulite on and there were enough times when that nicca was in my house so i don't want em'.
The person will ultimately feel slighted by it and that will never be forgotten. eveeerr.

]]> By: GRiiM http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14236 GRiiM Wed, 27 Aug 2008 12:04:41 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14236 Well if that happens that would fall to the Hoodrats category right? In public? i'm a private and mellow dude nothing really bothers me so if thats what it is? thats what it is! i need no drama in my life! there are 3-4 billion women in the wold, why would i worry about one! think about that! Well if that happens that would fall to the Hoodrats category right? In public? i'm a private and mellow dude nothing really bothers me so if thats what it is? thats what it is! i need no drama in my life! there are 3-4 billion women in the wold, why would i worry about one! think about that!

]]> By: Nykya http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14234 Nykya Wed, 27 Aug 2008 10:41:27 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14234 ...I remember being in line in Target, just copping some TGIF wings cause I didnt feeli like cookin, and this female was in the next line breaking up with her boyfriend who from what i gathered was somebody's HUSBAND....<br><br>She must have been on the phone with them both cause she went from "Tell Her How U Was Suckin All In My Ass...", to " Yes All That New Shit He Doin To U I Taught Him..." <br><br>She Ended the convo with "...Thats Rite Cause Im Gonna Always Be Fly n Classy off of your Child Suppport So Flucc U And Your Wack Ass Wife...."<br><br>I Love Target... …I remember being in line in Target, just copping some TGIF wings cause I didnt feeli like cookin, and this female was in the next line breaking up with her boyfriend who from what i gathered was somebody's HUSBAND….

She must have been on the phone with them both cause she went from “Tell Her How U Was Suckin All In My Ass…”, to ” Yes All That New Shit He Doin To U I Taught Him…”

She Ended the convo with “…Thats Rite Cause Im Gonna Always Be Fly n Classy off of your Child Suppport So Flucc U And Your Wack Ass Wife….”

I Love Target…

]]> By: assofjane http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14233 assofjane Wed, 27 Aug 2008 06:58:14 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14233 That arguing in public *hit is hella ghetto AND childish. If someone wants to degrade you by getting out of line in public, you need to wait until you get in private and verbally wear that ass out! That arguing in public *hit is hella ghetto AND childish. If someone wants to degrade you by getting out of line in public, you need to wait until you get in private and verbally wear that ass out!

]]> By: dieselle http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14232 dieselle Wed, 27 Aug 2008 02:44:24 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14232 GIVE IN.<br><br>That's the big one for me. I'm not the type of person to give up in a fight, ever, I'll keep going on and on and on and on (I'm that way in other respects, too ;p} but for real, ladies, especially, sometimes if you got a hard-headed man, just stop talking. Really, just STOP SPEAKING.<br><br>I will argue with my man and finally just be like, are you done. I'll let him finish, admit he was right and not speak to him for maybe a day. Trust, he'll understand just how wrong he was a whole lot more if you do it like that.<br><br>Seriously, though, and ladies, stop starting arguments over dumb shit. I can't tell you Xilla how many fuckin stupid-ass circular arguments I've had with my girlfriends 'cause she decided she wanna just talk us all to death. Ignance. GIVE IN.

That's the big one for me. I'm not the type of person to give up in a fight, ever, I'll keep going on and on and on and on (I'm that way in other respects, too ;p} but for real, ladies, especially, sometimes if you got a hard-headed man, just stop talking. Really, just STOP SPEAKING.

I will argue with my man and finally just be like, are you done. I'll let him finish, admit he was right and not speak to him for maybe a day. Trust, he'll understand just how wrong he was a whole lot more if you do it like that.

Seriously, though, and ladies, stop starting arguments over dumb shit. I can't tell you Xilla how many fuckin stupid-ass circular arguments I've had with my girlfriends 'cause she decided she wanna just talk us all to death. Ignance.

]]> By: Lb http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14231 Lb Wed, 27 Aug 2008 01:16:36 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14231 i agree with kys_mami... its soo important to have the last word. i trry my hardest to get mine in, but lately i just decide to be the bigger person and let it go. why walk around angry because of a stupid argument. i just let him blow up my phone with calls and texts until his fiingers hurt. i agree with kys_mami… its soo important to have the last word. i trry my hardest to get mine in, but lately i just decide to be the bigger person and let it go. why walk around angry because of a stupid argument. i just let him blow up my phone with calls and texts until his fiingers hurt.

]]> By: kyas_mami http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14230 kyas_mami Wed, 27 Aug 2008 00:15:20 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14230 O NO HE/SHE DIDNT!!!!.... did somebody really say that?! DEAD WRONG<br>Yea i'm guilty of writting at least one myspace blog about some foul ass shennanigans this nicca tried to pull on me once... but i never used his name! LOL (messy I kno!)<br>I hate arguing cus, It's hard for me to control my mouth, i'm already a smart ass an sarcastic to boot, so an argument for me is like the olympics especially if i'm right!! I'm tryin my hardest to make you feel as dumb as possible, and shed a few tears in the process.... and I've been known to follow someone who tries to walk away...I MUST HAVE THE LAST WORD!!!<br>As I've gotten older I've learned to avoid arguments at all costs cus I usually come out the bad guy... doin pretty good but i'm still a work in progress! LOL O NO HE/SHE DIDNT!!!!…. did somebody really say that?! DEAD WRONG
Yea i'm guilty of writting at least one myspace blog about some foul ass shennanigans this nicca tried to pull on me once… but i never used his name! LOL (messy I kno!)
I hate arguing cus, It's hard for me to control my mouth, i'm already a smart ass an sarcastic to boot, so an argument for me is like the olympics especially if i'm right!! I'm tryin my hardest to make you feel as dumb as possible, and shed a few tears in the process…. and I've been known to follow someone who tries to walk away…I MUST HAVE THE LAST WORD!!!
As I've gotten older I've learned to avoid arguments at all costs cus I usually come out the bad guy… doin pretty good but i'm still a work in progress! LOL

]]> By: erica http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/comment-page-1/#comment-14229 erica Wed, 27 Aug 2008 00:00:41 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/08/26/arguing-out-loud/#comment-14229 adults argue on myspace? i seriously hope not. thats something my 16 cousin does. i agree w/ the walking away. and its never hanging up if u preface with "ok im finish talking right now, im saying bye and hanging up. bye." click. thats how i do :) <br><br>and i never argue in public. im rude as f*ck and i usually deal w/ men like myself, sooooo i know we'd be 2 embarassed people if a argument went public. adults argue on myspace? i seriously hope not. thats something my 16 cousin does. i agree w/ the walking away. and its never hanging up if u preface with “ok im finish talking right now, im saying bye and hanging up. bye.” click. thats how i do :)

and i never argue in public. im rude as f*ck and i usually deal w/ men like myself, sooooo i know we'd be 2 embarassed people if a argument went public.

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