Comments on: Not On The First Night

By: michelle

michelle — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 03:04:17 +0000

You know, from my experience the man i want as a serious mate is the one i tend to make wait for the cooch.. and the men with whom we are just cutty buddies, are the ones i dont mind sexing within the first week.. This is something i never realised till my girlfriend brought it to my attention. I dont know, maybe its because i want to make sure he is feeling me more than just my coochie, so i make him wait!! Whereas if we just sexing i dont care how he feel, as long as he there when i want to get some, and give it right..

By: Nikki A.

Nikki A. — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 22:30:28 +0000

Nyka that was the “BEST” comment ever!! I agree with you 100%.

By: Suga_HiL

Suga_HiL — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 09:55:08 +0000

I personally think it's about preferences and what your standards are..but we know hoes come in all different types and packages. I personally am a woman that has to connect intellectally before even thinking about connecting on an intimate level. So that means don't think you getting any anytime soon after meeting me..Plus, only reason you feel the need to sleep with someone on the first night is either lack of self control or that's how you roll, if you can live with you being you thats all that matters.

By: Ttime

Ttime — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 06:18:27 +0000

@ Nykya:

Your post goes in the hall of fame!

By: Nykya

Nykya — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 05:46:42 +0000

Sex, 9ussy, honey hole…I think we need to stop giving so much value and signifigance to whats in them Vicky Secrets. EVERY WOMAN thinks/ knows she has the illest na-na, the untouchable good-good or waeva, but I can garantee that somewhere, there sits a chick with phenomenal pelvic control, no gag reflex, and NO man.

Yeah he may get sprung, and want to be up in and under yo ass…but…If a man tryna make some long termness happen, That Sex Game cannot be traded in for goods (unless you ho'ing of course), it can't hold down the business end of the deal. I aint never seen a 9ussy write a check. And the probability of actually meetin someone that u can flucc the first nite, have them move in and not end up on a Lifetime Channel Movie/ Oxygen Network's Snapped/ America's Most Wanted is RARE!

What's better than 9ussy?….NEW 9ussy!

By: Jane

Jane — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 02:23:08 +0000

1 man I slept with on the 1st night married me (though I divorced him 8 yrs. later), and my new man moved me in after the 1st night of this *ussy! Y'all women complaining about being by yourselves need to wake your sex game up a few notches. Keep it real with yourself!

By: Ttime

Ttime — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 02:15:57 +0000

@ Nichelle W:

I agree with you (see above post), but what you have to remember is that alot of these women are just talking shyt because they are on a blog. Most of them have probably never had a one-night stand and if they did they probably wouldn't admit to it in mixed company. This is what people do on blogs….talk shyt because they are anonymous, it's called bragadocious.

By: nichellewalker

nichellewalker — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 22:54:27 +0000

Wow I FEEL LIKE men and woman view sex so loosely and while young girls are looking at us adult women being so loose and I fuck on the first night how are we setting examples for our niece’s cousin and daughters. It is that Serious when you lay down and give a man your body and the next day he tell you I’m married or I got a girl and condoms do not help all the STD that’s out here. What do you mean this is not high school. That’s why the young girls are so loose because we older woman have failed to set an example for them to make men respect you. If we tell out daughter about there young boyfriends don't make them pressure you into sex. He can wait for you if he likes you. than why as grown women we feel the need to jump in the bed with a men cus he smiled at you? damn at least let the nigga get you a happy meal are something this world is a mess. And my good good is fire and I ain't wasting my snacks up sleeping with nigga’s I don’t know who most likely have a girl are a wife I deserve better.

By: Adrienne

Adrienne — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 05:00:26 +0000

I was thinking the same thing girl…thats a bad pic for this post

By: Adrienne

Adrienne — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 04:59:17 +0000

And use ur own condoms, that u bought…I'm done