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Insecure People Are Unhealthy
Posted in Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals on 19. Aug, 2008
Does it drive you crazy when your catch your man looking at another woman’s butt? Does the way your girl drools over Nelly make you mad enough that you blocked BET, MTV & VH1 with the V-chip? Well your insecurity is killing your immune system.
In a 2007 study of 61 healthy women the researchers found that those who had difficulty establishing close, trusting relationships showed signs of weaker immune function.
Insecurity stems from your relationship with your parents. Ask yourself, “did you father always leave you to be with another woman?” “Did your mama neglect you to be another man’s bust it baby?” What is it that makes you so attached to a person that you start feeling down as soon as your lover looks at another woman. Newsflash she’s just taking his order.
The thing with stressing and being insecure is that it takes away your focus, and it drains you and your spirit. Dealing with matters of the heart will take years off of your life, because just like a female orgasm, health is mental. So, crying over someone who isn’t crying over you is not good business, mentally or physically. The last thing we need is for more people to be walking around with a weak immune systems because they are insecure.
Insecure ppl will also put up with extra ish for fear of being alone. Does it really matter that he/she is LOOKING at someone else? Come on man..looking….and folks get bust cross their head for that and it is ridiculous. There will always be those smarter, funnier, prettier, more outgoing, abitious…….the list goes on and on.
I can only be the best me I can be…………..take it or leave it……………..i have spoken……………..lol
“The thing with stressing and being insecure is that it takes away your focus, and it drains you and your spirit”
Not only does this kind of behaviour drain the insecure person, it drains the people around him/her as well.
It's nervewrecking when someone needs constant validation, attention, reassurance etc. to make them feel better.
Hell, everybody has insecurities sometimes, but the people who are so insecure it takes over trheir lifes should really reflect upon themselves and heal themselves before they get involved in a relationship.
I DON'T MIND IF DUDE CHECKS OUT OTHER WOMEN'S ASSES AS LONG AS IT'S NOT “RECKLESS EYEBALLING” SOMETIMES WHEN I SEE A CHICK WITH AN EXTRA LARGE ASS I EVEN POINT IT OUT TO HIM MYSELF!
THAT'S LIFE…IT'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT…THOSE ARE HIS EYES!
WHEN I HAD A LOT OF “SELFHATE” GOING ON IN MY LIFE I FELT SICK ALL THE TIME…..JUST PLAIN SICK.
THIS WENT ON FOR 2 OR 3 YEARS….UNTIL I FINALLY GOT A GRIP ON MYSELF AND GOT HELP WITH MY SELFESTEEM….BUT, THANK GOD I FINALLY GOT THROUGH THAT LIVING HELL I WAS IN…..IT'S WAS SO HARD I FOUND REFUGE IN A BOTTLE!
JUST TO FORGET WHO I WAS IF ONLY FOR A LITTLE WHILE……NOT I'M VERY OUT SPOKEN….OUT GOING….AND DOING MY DAMN THANG…YA DIG! BUT, I'M STILL “WORK IN PROGRESS”
@ Just passin ' by “Hell, everybody has insecurities sometimes, but the people who are so insecure it takes over trheir lifes should really reflect upon themselves and heal themselves before they get involved in a relationship.”
I know where you're coming from but their are those out their that just get lost in transition and they tend to take the ppl around them with them or the ppl around them stay away from them … they just do not know how to have that self-reflection