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The Stop Tricking Movement
Posted in Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Xilla Post on 11. Aug, 2008
When did tricking come back in style? I mean I was brought up in the error of songs like scrubs, pigeons, independent women and cheapskate. I walked around singing you ain’t getting nada from us, not even a dollar from us!! Now all I hear in every song is “It ain’t tricking if you got it” well d*mn it yes it is tricking!!
I think men are getting it confused on what is tricking and what is not tricking. So allow me to break it down.
Not Tricking
- Buying a girl a drink
Tricking
- Giving her an open tab at the bar
Not Tricking
- Giving a girl gas money because she drove over to your house
Tricking
- Buying her a car because she got a fatty
The point I’m trying to make is that it’s okay to give your girl a gift or two, its okay to do nice things for her, but dropping thousands on a female you met a week ago… Is just stupid. Making it rain in the club, dumb!
Woman aren’t any better
I know a few women who have Bill Men. Men who sole purpose is to get some nookie in exchange for a bill payment. [rent, lights, heat, water, etc] Does this make them a h*e or a hustler? Hey if a man is willing to give up money in exchange for sex, by all means take it, but please know you’re selling coochie. I’m not mad at you because if I could… I would.
I’ve been saying this 4 years..Tricking is Tricking!!! There nothing wrong with throwing a bone every now & then.. Alot of these ATL chicks think that its the norm cuz so many dudes practice trickin to the fullest.. But they gets nathan over here!!
You pose an excellent question Xilla. I asked my homeboy this and he said that the “billman” makes her a bitch, cuz a bitch is about her paper. With that being said, I don’t think it’s right to use people, I don’t think women should have random dudes around her child(ren) and I don’t think that if you’re prostituting yourself you should be cookin for ole boy and allowing him to spend the night.
A whore won’t get any money, she fucks for free without any incentive. Off the rip….
I feel that a hustler will do what needs to be done without sacrificing her body. A hustler has a mouth piece/a gift for gab and won’t hafta bust it open to receive money and or gifts.
A woman….a woman is alluring and has appeal to not have men want to “trick off” on her but to make sure that she is straight and not in need of anything because he is concerned about her well being. With or without asking, a man will see about her.
Again I say that I don’t believe in using people even if they will allow me to do so, it’s unfair to everyone involved and people end up being hurt………..and I used to love that cheapskate….lol…….I have spoken……..
zeezy…errybody here in the A isn’t like that. Upgrade your selection.
Lil’ Wayne said that dumbass line in that joint he had 6 years ago called “Way of Life.” I still live by that song “Cheapskates” by the Sporty Thievez. You have to earn a right for me to give you bread. I still get evil looks when I don’t offer to buy drinks for females that NEVER leave the bar area. I could also care less, but I find it funny when I see these tricks that are willing to blow bread on these same females w/o even getting her damn digits. I would rather keep my money & use it for myself. Good luck in using me as a bill man. I have trouble paying my own bills. WTF are you going to get out of me other than a tip: GET A JOB! lol
Loved this post. I never understood women who would f*ck for bills and be proud. That makes her a lame. A gimp. That’s not cute. If a guy wants to buy me something that’s cool but I reciprocate and I get my own.
I think alot of men this day and age are raised by single mothers and have seen them (or even their sisters or female family members) struggling so when they are older and date women (i use date loosely) they are quicker to make her life easier. I am also not talking about that chick at the bar. If you are picking up bar tabs for a girl you just met 5 min ago, you are a lame. But if you are feeling a woman’s time and company there is no problem doing SOMETHING for her if you got it. If you can take your boys out and pop bottles (once again IF you have it like that) then you can do something for that girl you are calling after you get out of the club at 2am
WHEN YOU GO TO THE TITTY BAR WITH YOU PAY CHECK AND COME OUT WITH NOTHING BUT, LEG IN YOUR POCKET…..YOUR TRICKING!
IF A CHICK SUCH YOU OFF AND TURN AROUND AND ASK FOR SOME MONEY TO “HELP HER OUT”….YOU TRICKING!
IF YOU SNEAKING BEHIND YOUR GIRL’S BACK…YOUR TRICKING!
It aint TRicking if you got it….maybe broke dudes like you cant afford to do that…ahhahaa