Letters To Xilla – How Do I Become A Sexual Intellectual
Dear Xilla,
Hi, I just wanted to say that I stumbled upon your blog via “The P Chats” and I must say, it is the most entertaining blog I have read in a while! There are several websites I check out everyday, but yours has replaced some of them! I’m in my mid 30’s and have had only 2 sex partners. I’m very shy and my sexual inexperience keeps me from hooking up with guys-I wished I could become a Sexual intellectual for a little while, but I’m scared they would know that I don’t have much experience and I worry about doing things wrong! That and the fact that I am not by any means a size 6! Do you have any advise for me as to how to go about getting more experience and confidence?
Signed,
Juana B. Sexual
Dear Juana B.
First off, throw any fears of you not being a size 6 out of the window. There is a market for big girls and its booming. There are guys out there who will drink the bath water of a big gurl like its red kool-aid on a hot summer’s day. You just have to go to the right places. Also as far as wanted to be more sexual, just try it even if you’re scared. Most times the guy won’t notice, but by telling him the new things you want to try, you introduce new things into the bedroom and it will make him like you more or at least like doing you more. For the most part you just have to be creative, different men like different things so don’t be afraid to try something…different.
Watch “flicks” and try what you see
Find someone who likes you for you
Love yourself for who you are
explore yourself and become familiar with what makes you feel good.
relax, drink and protect yourself.
Xilla[at]BlogXilla[dot com]
