From Dad To Dad
From time to time, a celebrity will go through something that makes you relate to on an I actually went through that level. This is it, Usher, I know the feeling of being a new father, I too know what it’s like to have an ugly baby mother.
All jokes aside, when you’re a father, that child is the most important thing in the universe to you. Your life changes from being all about you, to being all about supporting that life you help bring into this world. All the drama, it’s worth it. All the heartache and stress is a small price to pay for raising a civilized member of society.
Along the road you’ll come across bumps, forks and potholes of life that will place in front of you. But you got to keep moving forward. A while back I asked a few women what went through their head when they found out they were pregnant. Shockingly to me, mostly all of them said they were upset, disappointed, and even scared.
They felt like a failure. I thought of why, maybe in my vain mind, I figured it was b/c when childhood dies, its corpses are adults and they enter society, one of the nicer names of hell. Is this why we dread children, because, they show us the state of our decay. How ugly we’ve gotten over the years.
Aristotle believed that women give more to their children because they suffer more than men do, and giving birth to the child gives them more ownership to the child. But I believe he never met a single father who looked into his child eyes and saw his own soul staring back at him wondering the question of why daddy left him, and promising himself to be the best father he could be.
