Love With Kids Involved
Excerpt from 13 Reasons To Avoid Dating Single Mothers: “If some kid is going to interrupt the meanest head you’ve ever gotten, that kid should have your last name.” Dating with kids can be a hassle, you want to be in love, and you want someone to love your kids like their own. But it gets difficult, here are some tips & signs you need to know and look out for.
Changes - If your lover is continuously trying to talk you out of spending time with your kids so you 2 can go on dates then a flag should pop up. Next time your mate tries to get you to change your plans then bring up the discussion and let them know that your kids will always come first.
Buy Me – If you and your lover live together and they keep going shopping and only come back with stuff for the children which carry their DNA this is a problem. Once you’ve made the step to living together you 2 might as well consider yourself family. Make note of it.
Side Eyes – Children say the darnedest things. 9 times out of ten it’s something cute and funny but when your child says something you think is cute and your lover gives them the side eye from hell it’s a problem. Your child might be getting ear plucks on the low.
I’m Not Playing – If your lover is constantly doing something to make your child cry, even in a playful way. The person might not like your child. Also a lot of name calling. Not like Bastard, or Idiot boy. But Like Jason, Jason. JASON take your toys in your own corner of the APT. The person doesn’t like your kid.
You can achieve love in Urban America only thing is you have to see the signs of good love and bad love be careful and use supreme judgment.
