What Is Sexy
What is sexy to me? I know what you’re thinking it’s the BlogXilla, he’s going to say something nasty. Well no I’m not.
Sexy can not be defined in just one word, or one thing, or one trait. Sexiness is not a tattoo in an erotic place; it’s not an interest that one has in a particular topic. Sexy is soft kisses, while your chewing a piece of cinnamon gum. Sexy is sitting on the couch in your house clothes and giving me a look that screams I’m happy you’re hear with out saying a word. Sexy is when you want to know why I do the things I do. Sexy explaining things to me that I don’t understand and not running away, or starting an argument b/c I can’t see the vision you are trying to describe. A friend of mine told me a true teacher does not force his vision on you, they simple allow you to stand beside them and see for yourself.
You see I strongly believe that sexy is commitment. It’s giving yourself to someone and giving up control only to feel them give that same control back to you, yet feeling secure knowing that it’s a 50/50 relationship. Sexy is not a picture of your ass, or an outfit that reveals 75% of your birthday suit. Sexy is remaining classy while showing enough to spark the imagination. Sexy is an intelligent conversation over a cup of mocha latte. It’s being open to learn something new, to get involved with politics b/c I’m interested in it, not writing it off b/c you refuse to try to understand the situations that are affecting the world for the kids you have or the kids that will walk to Earth tomorrow. Sexy knows LOVE is a 2 way street, and understanding that if a person is giving their all and their all is more than yours, you should get on their level and try harder. Not to out due them, but b/c you understand the type of person you are calling your significant other. You understand that the person you have laid with is a King or a Queen so you try harder then you did before. Sexy is learning from you mistakes.
I guess what I’m trying to say is Sexy is giving 100 percent of yourself and then digging deep inside of your heart to find even more of yourself and then, doubling that. I give 100% of myself and more. I’m not a quitter, some may call me crazy but I never give up. I throw my heart out in the open, totally prepared to feel every bit of pain that love can and will bring. A wise man once said that if you hit a boulder a million times before it breaks. It’s not that millionth blow that breaks the boulder, but the 999,999 times before it that allowed you to achieve that goal. So to me Sexy is learning from your mistakes and never giving up until you achieve your goal. Just think what is Bill Gates gave up after his first try at Windows, or If Steve Jobs gave up before he perfected the Ipod or if Abe Lincoln gave up after he lost a battle in the civil war.
I am Sexy!
What Is Sexy To You?
