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Damn it ,en. It’s time to step up our game. Last week my good friend Pete M wrote a blog called the real reason women can’t find a good man, about how women outnumber men making the odds of finding a man much harder. While my time in Atlanta confirmed this, I actually have a different thought process… Why the hell can’t a black man find a woman to complete him?

Think about it, it’s the men who should get down on one knee and ask for a woman’s hand in marriage. It’s the man who is suppose to provide. It’s the man who is suppose to be a man and make the first step but instead we got the game fucked up. Hip Hop girlfriends are dropping down on one knee and asking rappers to marry them “For Love or For Ratings.” That’s just wrong.

Look Ill be the first to own up to my part in the stigma of the single black woman. I’ve placed a lot of blame on the independent woman for not being able to find a man. I’ve posted blogs telling dudes to avoid dating single mothers. I’ve promoted cheating, justified being a side chick and written entire guides telling women how to steal another chick’s man. Now it’s time for us men to step up to the plate and start making honest women out of the queens we met.

I firmly believe that the reason there are more women than men in the world is so we can find the right woman for us. Men are fuck ups, we routinely do dumb shit and there wasn’t so many women for us to practice on we’d probably run out of women and live in a world full of lesbians. Okay, maybe I’m exaggerating but you get my point.

Now is the time for men to stop chasing jumpoffs, and start making wives. Because it’s up to men to pop the question. It’s up to the men to climb to the level of our strong “good” women and met her on her level BEFORE asking her out on a date. No women, black or white should should settle for a man who will never be on her level career wise. Its up to us men to demand more of ourselves.

The fact is that being single is fun, for men and women but it’s time for us to change the future. There is nothing wrong with a single woman, or a single man, but we are skipping steps because we are liking it and not putting a ring on it. Maybe we can blame the facebook like button. Maybe we can blame hip hop. Maybe we should blame ourselves and take responsibility. I know too many men with baby mama drama, too many mother’s who can’t stand their baby father’s. Bottom line there are too many baby mothers and baby fathers and not enough husbands and wives. So it’s up to us to make our women wives, if we don’t we cannot be mad when someone else does.

So what do you think? Could the real reason so many women are single, simply be men? Is it time for men to grow up, step up to the plate and start making women, wives instead of jumpoffs? Why are you single? Lets converse.

More sexy Blake Lively pictures have surfaced on the internet and now her reps have to scramble for a new excuse. The hacker released 17 more photos of Blake Lively after her reps said the pictures were fake. They captioned the photos with “Oh, yes, Blake’s rep. These are totally fake. We really, really believe you. Want moar? BTW, thanks for all the faps.”
This is going to get ugly but fortunately for us, these New Blake Lively Nude Photos are even hotter. She’s got a phatty!! Check under the cut for more pics!

Blake Lively likes to take nude pictures. Last night nude pics of Blake Lively surfaced on the net. “The photos of Blake Lively which have just surfaced on various websites are 100 percent FAKE. Blake has never taken nude photos of herself,” her reps claim, but her phone, looks exactly like the Iphone in her naked photos that hit the net last night. She might be Leonardo DiCaprio’s new girlfriend, if so he’s a lucky guy.
In the Blake Lively nude photos you can see her posing with her Iphone, showing her butt, and showing off her Blake Lively boobs. It’s clear to see why she’s the hottest girl in the world right? If you want to know how to take sexy nude photos for your man click here.
Check out Blake Lively’s nude photos under the cut.

Chris Brown put on a sweaty shirtless performance at Cameo with the 400 Club. Breezy kicked it with Simply Jess, Bow Wow and Luda during Memorial Day Weekend. The ladies will love these. In other news Chris Brown tweeted, “Party was amazing! Police shut it down though!!! Lol”

Photo By Ranz Zazu

Written by MONICA J for BlogXilla.com

When a woman doesn’t wear panties what does that say about her? Everything. Nothing. Eh, maybe it says a little bit of something without saying everything at once. She could be a sexual Intellectual, she could be exploring her wild side, or she may be innocently trying to avoid panty lines in her leggings or skintight dress that has all eyes on her like a Tupac song. Women wear panties for a reason, but women may “forget” them for a reason also, so let’s explore that.

1. Her clothes are tight— She’s found the perfect dress, but boy shorts leave too many lines and a g-string may not eliminate a small ripple in the fabric of her outfit. How does she eliminate this problem? She leaves her panties in the boudoir and she leaves her house commando. This doesn’t mean anything. For the sake of fashion, looking good and personal preference the woman in question is just innocently trying to avoid panty lines. It’s not a big deal, so don’t get
too excited.
2. She may be exploring her wild side—sometimes if a woman has been a “good girl” that always plays by the rules she may want to flounce around without her panties. There are conditions here when you’re dealing with someone who has probably been seen as a goodie-two-shoes for most of her life. She’s probably a little prude and has turned her nose up a few times when the thought of going commando has crossed her mind. This woman will probably leave her panties
at home IF and only if she’s getting ready to show her man her “wild side” OR if she’s seeing if being commando really makes a difference in how an outfit looks. Either way it’s still something that she may be apprehensive about and she probably won’t do this often, so once again don’t get excited because she’s not exactly leaving her panties at home to impress you.
3. She’s a Sexual Intellectual—there’s really nothing else to it. She probably has a lot of body that she likes to have seen and noticed. She may be overtly sexual at times and she may actually just crave attention. The bottom line is that she probably always has on something tight, a dress, a skirt, leggings… all items of clothing that cling to that body. I’ll actually venture to say that she leaves her panties at home (or doesn’t buy many pairs) because she’s into quickies more often than not. Remember everyone, if her panties are at home she won’t be leaving them anywhere,
especially not underneath your bed or in between your sheets. Now you may get excited, but act like you have some damn sense okay?

So, what does a woman not wearing panties mean? It means that before you judge her, try to figure her out first because her mind might not be on sex, it may be on maintaining her flyness at all costs. Remember it can mean everything, nothing, or a little bit of something in the middle.

-Monica J. for Blogxilla.com

Sexual Intellectuals don’t stop at boobs and booty, the feet are equally important. I have a foot fetish and while some people hate feet, they are a very important part of sex. Things like Foot Rubs, Toe Sucking, or painting your lovers toes just say I love you. What are you feelings about feet, the foot fetish and all things having to do with the feet? Are you in or out? Let’s converse!

Photos by @Ran Zazu

Big Sean drops a track called Home. Finally Famous: The Album drops June 28th via Def Jam Records.

Big Sean – Home [Download]

Warren Jae drops the visual one the hardest joints on his recent “The Dreamcatcher Mixtape” The kid who they called 12:01 because he’s darker than midnight, future brighter than the sun, is spitting straight fire here. “Every girl I mess with look better than the last one” ~ Warren Jae.

Notice how these women set this up. LIl Wayne tries to talk to one fight, who keeps his attention while the other one reaches over like 3 chicks to grab the large wad of cash in Lil Wayne’s hand. Someone need to teach her “How To Love” and not be a money hungry heffa! Needless to say young Lil Twist got to feel on a bunch of women who couldn’t keep their clothes on, while the rest of Young Money did their thing and women took home a boat load of singles. Good times indeed! Check out these killer pics of Wayne at the Worldstarhiphop 6 Year Anniversary at King of Diamonds on May 27, 2011 in Miami, Florida.

As most of you know, I have a thing for miss Lohan.