5 Amazing Reasons Why Titles Are Not Important Anymore
Posted in Relationships on 30. Aug, 2010
Cassie turned 24 years old last week. The YBF posted a picture and video of Diddy giving Cassie a cake with rumors of Diddy giving Cassie a birthday kiss. Sounds juicy. While I won’t speculate on their romance or non-romance I will say friends give cakes and kisses too. My real concern is… Are titles still important in a relationship?
Don’t get me wrong I’m waiting to crown my Cinderella, but I can call my Cinderella a million other things and she’ll still just be my wife, girlfriend, significant other, or Amber Rose 2.0. If that’s what I decide to call the woman I spend the rest of my life with. Here are just a few things I’d like for everyone to remember while you’re waiting for your title.
- Time After Time: If your boo is spending all day on the phone with you, all day texting you, and hours upon hours at your house or you at theirs. Does it really matter what you call each other as long as you enjoy the time you share together?
- The Gift That Keeps On Giving: Every Valentine’s Day, Christmas, Birthday or Two Week Anniversary they give you a gift, so is being a special friend really that bad?
- Generic Questions: How was your day? Did you enjoy dinner? Does your feet hurt? Can I get you anything? If your title-less lover really cares about the answers to any of these questions you could call them Frankenstein and still fall in love hard.
- Satisfaction: If you’re beyond pleased in the bedroom. Is any other name beside the person’s government important?
- Nothing: The moment when they hold you in their arms, or when they lay in yours, and nothing matters. Ask yourself at that moment if they called you the Waka Flocka to their Gucci Mane would it even matter?
Sure having titles is a pretty cool thing. I know personally I enjoy having a girlfriend more than being single, but when you’re truly locked in with a special friend life can be amazing. When life’s amazing nothing else matters, not even what you call me.
funny.
i'm going through this right now,
even wrote a poem about it.
Question: So what is keeping that "special friend" from becoming your girlfriend?
Really SILKY tell me about it
A title is not really important until you get married—unless you're going to Grandma's house for Sunday dinner.
I second that bogart4017 – I just got married recently. Nothing like making a lifelong decision like that to put the month long relationships into perspective
Being called a "special friend" is LAME. It's definitely an easy way out. For example, if the other person decides to start getting it in with someone else, they drop the other person because they're just "special friends." And since they didn't have a title anyway, they can't really be mad. It might work for some, but it sounds like a vicious cycle in my opinion.
Aw… special friend. Well, well, well… makes ya just want to just enjoy the moment… I had a special friend give me an ultimatum and wanted the title or else it was gonna be nada for us. Well, I chose nada.. Kinda miss him but I didn't want to put a serious title on it..
I have to agree with MzBerry,…I have friends, I have family, and maybe, (if the opportunity presents itself at a particular moment).. I have a man. There are no "fwbs", "special friends", "fuck buddies". I want my man to be mine…not be able to fuck with everyone cus there is no title, (that would be tooo easy).
The same reason why you lock your door at night is the same reason why people needs titles in relationships, security. When you have vested time with someone and know that you want to continue to feel like this is progressing down the right track with as much clarity as possible. Hence the reason for titles. Kudos to those who do not feel the need and are secure enough in their coupleness. For the rest of us, clarity is a great thing too, and can add to the great exprience!!!
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I love this post. I am experiencing this now and its great. I am with someone who is showing and teaching me more about love and commitment than any man in my life ever has. I keep seeing the ladies write that not having a title will give a man an excuse to cheat but that’s retarded he will cheat either way. Its an amazing experiencing when you have an understanding with someone who loves you, is consistent, dependable, committed to you, and puts his all into you no matter the title. its about whats within that relationship that you both are happy with not the title. love is love.
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