OMG! YOU WANNA PUT THAT WHERE? WHAT TO DO IF YOUR MAN IS TOO BIG
Posted in Rated Grown Up on 16. Jun, 2010
Written by LENA B for BlogXilla.com
Lady Sexual Intellectuals, if you are anything like me, you love a well-endowed man. But some men are beyond well-endowed, they are just HUGE. It is quite easy to get intimidated by these men when you think of the possible outcomes of the task at hand. It is even easier if you have never had a man that big. But as some of you have begun to learn about me, I love the man-muscle in all shapes and sizes. There are women I know who are flat out against dealing with a man bigger than 8 inches and I have come to learn it is because they simply don’t know any better. So I have done a little research, personal and professional, and come up with some times that will help you rise to the challenge of the super sized D.
- STRETCH: Yes, Stretch. I don’t mean the vajay-jay, I mean the other muscles that you use , your legs, hip, and glutes. The looser you are, the more relaxed your body will be.
- THINK POSITIVELY: You will be surprised as to how much of your fear is mental. The vagina is a muscle, it stretch and it won’t just snap. Women birth babies for crying out loud, you can handle it.
- RELAX: Tension will only make the experience awkward. Also, the man is already big, do you want him to try forcing it in too? Tension can create a painful situation where there needn’t be one.
- BREATHE DEEP: This goes hand in hand with relaxing. Deep breaths calm you down, and get the blood flowing at an easy pace. Take deep breaths as he enters you, he will be in there and you will be getting it on before you know it.
- KNOW YOUR LIMITS: This mean just what it says. If you feel pain or severe discomfort, STOP. You can injury yourself if you don’t and you have nothing to prove. You know your body best, manage your participation and tolerance accordingly.
- COMMUNICATE: Talk to your partner about your apprehensions. If they are into you, they will know how to handle it and do their best to make your comfortable and make it the best sexual experience possible. And if they don’t you shouldn’t be dealing with them.
A big healthy D is nothing to be afraid of and it can be quite fun to master. So try these tips. Have fun and don’t forget to let me know how it is! Stay Sexual My Friends
Very well said…awesome article
Great Article and great points.
If any ladies want to practice handling a big member or ManXilla I am available
Xilla dont start nothing!!!!LOL
Xilla R u serious? Im trying to be the star in the next cinderlla!!!
Oh Lord, ya'll are goin in! But I love it!
@Junae and Sweet Tabu Thanks for the love ladies!
@Xilla SMH! You are a fool!! Love ya!
@Psych Major and Juicy Ctre Let me know how that works out for you! LOL
ROTFLMAO!!!! YAll are too much. Lena very great article love, thats exactly how I handle my boo, cuz he hung!!lol
You know its really a mind thing for me.Like you mentioned just relax take deep breathes and say to "Yes I Can"!!!! Yes I Can!!! You throwing that ass back at him!!!
hmm. ::noted::
Oh you aint said nothing but a word……….Watch your back!!
I Needed this article,thank you so much.Dating guy for couple of months, no penetration yet just oral and he is packin~~
Love love love a Super Size. Only thing is after you've had one it's hard to go back to the little ones (9" below). Embrace that love muscle. I'm more so intimidated when it comes to oral with that monster, But I step up to the mic like a professional and request him to be easy. He strokes my hair and tells me don't worry he'll only give me what I can handle . . . and of course being the Leo I am I'm trying to handle it all (only to realize I can't).
Oh yeah, and Practice makes perfect, the more you ride it the more you feel it deep inside the more you want it all the time. Just the thought of my man's monster gets me moist . . .
Thanks for the afternoon pick me up, going home to get some shit started.
Gives new meaning to the phrase "just say no"
What’s your Facebook address? can’t find it…
Its like you read my mind! You seem to know a lot about this, like you wrote the book in it or something. I think that you could do with some pics to drive the message home a little bit, but instead of that, this is great blog. A great read. I will definitely be back.